Write to Nance Confer at marbleface@bellsouth.net with questions or comments.
Write to Nance Confer at marbleface@bellsouth.net with questions or comments.
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I’m confused, although that is probably normal. Why is this family and HSLDA fighting with FL about what grade the girl is in? I can barely remember what grade my kids would be in if they were in school. It’s meaningless info.
http://www.hslda.org/hs/state/fl/200709201.asp
Does FL require HSers to report at a certain grade level.
Hi Chris, clever use of the write us page, good for you!
No, statutory FL home education requires no grade level reporting, nor particular hours or subjects of instruction even, except that it’s supposed to be “sequential.” (If we unschoolers have no problem with that, dunno why anyone would . . .)
OK – here’s what I think. This is really convoluted. The school district doesn’t set or sign off on grade level, so the parents should never have taken the odd tack of trying to get that done officially, or to “promote” a homeschooler by district action. If the schools could do that, then they could “retain” and “remediate” us just as easily, yes?
When Favorite Daughter was ready for dual enrollment in college courses, the articulation agreement between the district and the college specified the student be at least 15, and doing 11th grade equivalent work. So I said she was. It was up to me, as her “homeschooling authority.” It never occurred to me to get the district, knowing nothing about her except what I choose to tell it, to confirm that she was! Or to worry about her “peers” and how they were being tracked. How absurd. . . unless she’s wanting to enter the high school, in which case the district can place her according to the district’s policies and the school principal’s judgment anyway, regardless of what her homeschool file has in it.
p.s. The family was never being “hassled” in the first place! The district wasn’t doing anything pro or con. Isn’t that what we all want, to be left ALONE?!
This is what comes of asking permission, wanting approval, and using a canned curriculum with grade levels and thinking anyone, including any FL official, cares which grade workbook you have your child doing.
Nance
And along the same lines, with the usual misinformation being posted on the very nice Christian hsing list here. One poster wrote:
And I answered:
See, that’s what you get for checking.
There is no magical 50% line.
There is no rule that says I have to “teach” my child a certain amount of the time or percentage of the time and others can only instruct him for less than 50% of the time.
There is no law saying I can’t make arrangements with another Mom or two and share babysitting and designate the time I am with the child as the “homeschooling” part of our day and any learning that happens to happen while he is with the other Mom(s) as also directed by me.
There is no law saying homeschoolers (even those using the private school option) have to use grade levels. (Yes, you have to designate a grade level in the private school option but it can be completely unrelated to anything.)
When we ask a school person what to do, we will often get a schoolish answer.
The options available to homeschoolers in FL are not based on public school or any other school standard.
If parents would be a little more imaginative and take a little more responsibility for arranging their own lives instead of asking some office worker to set their schedules and everything else for them, they could have a much better time homeschooling here.
Nance
Not suggesting that particular e-list is any more likely to post this “50%” and “grade level” misinformation. I’ve seen it all over. You don’t have to belong to a Christian e-list to think you have to ask permission to turn around.
Nance
SO true! If the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.
Maybe it follows then, that when you ask the carpenters’ union about relating to your own children, you can expect to hear they need a good pounding to fit in? (I think church and school officials both follow the Carpenter’s all-purpose blueprints too religiously — puns intended — which is why “church school at home” can too often be a double whammy hammering of the individual.)
From a publicly schooled, conservatively churched (apparently self-educated despite it all!) young thinker we know:
Not to take an ounce of blame away from churching, but schooling seems to do its job too in making bad parents. IMO if you can’t make decisions about and with your own children about the very make-up and arrangement of your days, you are not ready to be a parent. That SO many people seem incapable of living outside the school-set routine is frightening.
Nance
Greg Laden. More opinions about homeschooling.
http://scienceblogs.com/gregladen/2008/04/the_homeschooler_mind_set.php
Hi Doc. Oh, goody, more unscience-like slamming of what he doesn’t want to try to understand, just kill.
Who cares what GL thinks? He’s made up his mind and no amount of his dipping his whatever into the stream will convince him otherwise.
Nance
Ugh – pollution!
JJ…wanted to write a personal apology to you for a couple of my comments on Spunky. I do not make it a practice to comment on such things to people on the internet and consider it in very poor taste to do so. You probably agree. I did make the comment that I believe you have a good heart, and I meant that. It came after reading some of the things you had posted in other places and I do see your point, but we’ll have to agree to disagree on the rules thing. One thing I didn’t say is that we don’t have problems with lying in my household either, but we definitely have rules.
Aside from that we may be parenting in much the same way, particularly after I read your post about your 14-year-old’s reaction to some other children at a dance recital. Please accept my regrets for my rudeness.
Kelly, thank you! That wasn’t necessary but I do appreciate it.